He Who Refuses to Clean Out the Church, Sits in His Own Pew
There is a particular genre of religious writing that has perfected the art of sounding compassionate while asking nothing of the reader.
There is a particular genre of religious writing that has perfected the art of sounding compassionate while asking nothing of the reader. It goes something like this: those who are leaving aren’t rebels, they’re wounded; don’t judge them, hold the door open; be patient, the way Jesus was patient. It is warm. It is quotable. It gets shared thousands of times on Facebook under a soft-focus photo. And it almost never asks the one question that would actually matter: what did we do?
That is the shape of a widely shared Russell Moore quote making the rounds again this month, tied to a piece titled “My Dad Taught Me How to Love the Exvangelical.” The quote dates to 2021 — a moment when much of white evangelicalism was still working hard to avoid a full reckoning with how deeply Trump’s presidency had reshaped its politics, its institutions, and its relationships. Read now, five years later, it’s a useful artifact of that avoidance: gracious in tone, but written at a moment when the tone of grace was doing a lot of work that honest self-examination wasn’t yet doing.
In this particular essay, Moore’s framing is generous to the people leaving. He resists the easy caricature of “deficient worldview” or “chasing immorality,” and instead casts many departures as grief rather than defiance — Simon Peter at the seashore, not Judas fleeing by night. Taken on its own terms, in this piece, that’s a real improvement over the harsher rhetoric common in evangelical spaces at the time. It’s worth saying plainly, too, that Moore has elsewhere been one of the more willing establishment evangelical voices to name institutional failures directly — the SBC abuse cover-ups, the political capture of the evangelical brand — which is part of why he’s become unwelcome in a lot of Southern Baptist circles. This essay shouldn’t be read as his complete position on the church’s institutional health. But it should be read on its own terms, and on those terms it has a specific, common flaw.

























































