What Do You Want From Me?
Why We’re Comfortable Expressing Our Wants—but Rarely Asking for Theirs
We often move through the world assuming we’re communicating, when in reality we’re only broadcasting. We talk about what we want, what we feel, what we fear, what we hope for. Our desires are familiar to us; they present themselves readily. So we speak them readily.
But turning the question around—asking someone else, “What do you want from me?”—that requires a different posture. It opens us to responsibility, to change, to the possibility that we might have to become more than what we currently are. Maybe that’s why we avoid it.
The avoidance shows up everywhere: in our relationships, in our writing, in our art, and yes, even in our spiritual lives. It’s a quiet pattern hiding in plain sight.

